Would be nice to hear how it is in real life, BUT, that doesn't necessarily translate over into Railworks, as we have all found out.
I use a basic rule of thumb. Only train brakes. Depending on speed, lets say 60MPH, at .6 miles from my next stop, give it self lapping, then hit running, I'm slowing at 10MPH per .1 miles. I can do this pretty much every time, but I do run each scenario at least once or twice to get it down. Just like in real life. Don't expect me or anyone to come in cold and hit the nail on the head first time out! If you do, then I want some of what you are drinking.
I have given up on dynamics. Too many derailments, cars littering all over the landscape. It's funny I suppose but not how I want to drive. OK, my

And, yes, what Nick and Cody call "power braking" if I have to I'll drag that consist into the next stop with 50% or more throttle. Don't bail. Brake pipe will not recharge (except on the tunnel motors, they instantly recharge)
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