5292nate wrote:... Feel free to ball me out, cause I'm sure there are some here who think I'm very wrong.
At least from where I sit, it's not a question of whether you're wrong as much it is a matter of there being several schools of thought about this. At least a couple of these schools of thought go back to the middle of the last century, when the U.S. had a coast-to-coast system of fast trains, most of them operating in the 90-100mph range, with most of those still hauled by steam. Railroad rolling stock design and operation were very different exercises then as compared to from the way it's done now; and in the back of everybody's mind - indeed it was within living memory for many of them - was a history of horrific train wrecks in which wooden passenger cars were frequently telescoping into each other, at least partially, with a toll of dead and maimed that many people would find hard to believe these days.
I've read enough accident reports, over the years, to conclude - safely, I think - that there are strengths and weaknesses in each of these schools of thought, and that each of them has had to deal with some especially bad incidents. On the other hand, they all tend to have excellent safety records when those involved in the operation and maintenance of the equipment do their jobs well. I doubt that it is economically possible to develop a set of design standards that can compensate merely negligent operating practices, much less for operating practices that are irresponsible or reckless. Ultimately, it appears that the human factor is consistently either the strongest - or weakest - link in the chain.
I'd also make the observation that bawling each other out hasn't tended to make for constructive conversation - at least not in my lifetime - so you won't get that from me.